愛樂偶像劇

Quite often we don’t think

that whatever we do in our lives

is building a person or even a team around us

so we react to things the way we want to

we react to others comments or behaviors

whatever we feel like it

if someone failed our expectations

then we use whatever ammunitions we’ve got

trying to get them to listen to us

or to comply with our wishes

and what we use to manipulate people

sort of reflect what kind of person we are

or how we were brought up

sometimes we hear harsh words from our parents

thinking…

they are so ignorant and so harsh on us

but

when we become parents

we suddenly realize we use the exact same tactics on our kids

we can’t get out of this vicious cycle

unless

we look at ourselves

and say

ha

I am just doing exactly the same thing

that my parents did to me

maybe because of this realization

I learn to be more tolerant of people around me

knowing that I am no different than others

in any way that I can think of…

and one thing that i learned

reading the sports news lately is that

to build a team or to build a person

we’ve got to be aware of our own feelings now

and to be aware of others’ feelings so

we know how to say the right thing to others

to help ourselves and others to grow

instead of venting or making ourselves feeling happy at the moment

I was touched by Charlie Manuel’s words

of his team members

and I was touched by Shane Victorino’s comforting words to Happ

They remind me that I should

remember that as we go through our daily lives

we are to help ourselves and others to get better and better

and it does take efforts to accomplish that…..

starting now

I am going to make the efforts to do just that!